If a positive, low-key strategy can work, isn’t it worth giving it a try before more confrontational and heavy-handed traditional approaches?
You could feel the tension rising across the gym. Disputes over the rules. Name-calling. “Accidental” pushing and shoving. There’s a reason they call it “chemistry,” and this PE class was getting ready for an explosion.
Whenever students bicker and pick at each other verbally, it’s disruptive, contagious, and annoying. But if it starts to escalate, it can easily become a safety issue, especially in PE class.
When I arrived to pick up my class from PE, I didn’t know about the insults and chest-thumping that had been going on. What I saw was a calm, happy group of students, sitting in a circle giving each other compliments. I thought this was just the way this teacher ended the class every day. I loved it so much, I asked her about it after school.
A Mood-Lifting Strategy
“I could see they were starting to get on each other’s nerves, so I had to do something,” she said. “I started off by awarding a few students tickets for great things they had done during class. Then I awarded more tickets to anyone who gave someone else a sincere compliment. Pretty soon the mood settled down and the problem was over.”
The Power of Seeing the Positive
I was amazed. Instead of penalizing the students by making them sit on the bench or writing up a tracking form, this teacher used the power of seeing the positive. Even better, she got the whole group to leverage that power and make the problem go away.
Will this always work? Of course not. But I saw with my own eyes that it can work. And if a positive, low-key strategy can work, isn’t it worth giving it a try before more confrontational and heavy-handed traditional approaches?
The compliment strategy will definitely be going into my bag of tricks, and I hope it will become part of your repertoire, too.
Now go create a great day for yourself and your students!
Katrina Ayres, Positive Teaching Strategies
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